From Coma to Home in under a week

From coma to home in under a week, talk about a whistle stop tour of a full range of emotions. We have been very lucky no lasting damage from what he did, he is going to be supported back to University with the help from the crisis team, so he can get back with his friends to continue with the healing.
Again thank you for all of your well wishes prayers and positive thoughts

From my son:

I’d like to thank everyone who was sending prayers and positive energy to me at my most time of need, I’m hoping to be back on my feet soon,Β  I’m currently recovering in Temuka and will be heading back up to chch Sunday/Monday for uni.

Son in a Coma

Would just like to ask you to spare few minutes of your time to think or pray for our son Nick who is in currently in aΒ  coma. He is in hospital from an attempted suicide from an overdose. It looks like he will recover but has not woken yet. The New Zealand police and medical staff have been fantastic.
Depression sucks

Trip Cancelled

Well it’s official the Side Winder Missile has been fired and Jane has a new job, but it’s in Wellington which is 600 km away and across the Cook Strait, so not really a daily commute.
So my turning 50 tour is off 😦
I now have so much work to do and so many decisions to make, but done so far:

  • Flight Cancelled 😦
  • Bus Cancelled 😦
  • Started Selling off those loved but unneeded items πŸ™‚ Yeee I am making money

As my blog is named “Going Slowly”, well that feels right at this moment.

However it is a great move for Jane, and as she is the bread winner in our lives at this point she has my full support and I will move to support her, or she will stop my pocket money πŸ˜‰ Oh the trials of being a kept man πŸ™‚

So onward and up upwards, in this case up north and to the capital of New Zealand, where I have lived before and on the quiet, love the place, however as with any capital city living costs in many ways are that bit more. on the plus side maybe a house with an ocean view is calling.

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Luxury Travel how to go to exotic places and stay at home

Perhaps a bold statement but is it true? Well lets take a closer look, spend a few nights in luxury hotels on any continent and the experience is very close where ever you are, and that’s planned and is no accident, yes there are little nuances at each of them but as you travel these kind of just blur, and one long haul flight in business class is much the same.
Yes you can tell you are in Asia, America or Europe by the food that is served, but even then its rare that international travellers are not catered for these days should they want a taste of home.

Yes the weather can be different from place to place, however it is so rare to not find perfectly controlled environment should you choose, and of course the hotel staff are all local to the area, no not these days, they tend to be from a worldwide pool varying from very talented well paid to the lowest price they can get away with behind the scenes, this is not to say these are not great staff just employed from a labour pool which is geographically close and can be paid less than the locals.

Now if that makes you happy then good and I am pleased for you.

So what’s the alternate, for me it’s slow travel by bike, not for everyone I know but it works for me.

Why?

Put simply: Live, brutal, raw, contemplative, and encompassing.

For me that has meant being hungry, cold and wet or hot smelly and dehydrated, elated and or exhausted,Β  welcomed with open arms into private homes or threatened at gun point and ordered to leave. Eaten foods which I was unsure of what I had eaten and not sure if that was a good or bad thing. Tasted delights which I neither could pronounce or be able to order again. Slept in ditches and castles, beaches and boxes, fields and houses, railway stations and park benches or just under the stars. Bathed in rivers, showered in waterfalls and got clean in public bathes with limitless water and washed in a tea cup to save water. Seen the sun rise and set in places to amazing to imagine.

Met people which I shared the last of my food with or shared from their table, but unable to speak the same language, but still enjoyed their company, met people that changed my perspective of my world around me, been made humble so many times, and met people I wish I hadn’t. Seen the joy of nature brutally close, and been made to feel so small by it all. Been on streets where it is unwise to travel and places which I should never of ventured, but have scene places which for some reason are not in the guide books but are better than many which are.

Experienced total solitude and swamped by the hubbub of humanity, been lonely, scared, felt joy and happiness but though it all I had a feeling of presence, place and connection to where I was in the world and for me that is important to my general well being.

Now if you found all of that in your average luxury hotel I doubt it would get great reviews, however one thing that I am sure we can all agree on is, however you choose to travel arriving home is always something special but not always as expected.

And just when you think you’ve seen it all you go round the bend in the road πŸ™‚

Upside down,inside out

Just when you think you have a handle on life it throw’s you a curve ball that you just can’t plan for. Happy but full of the unknown and not sure where to start in so many ways.

All I know is a new adventure has begun I just don’t know quite what that means yet πŸ™‚ However I do know that the person IΒ always wanted to be, might already be me.

On to the Pacific

Kurow to Duntroon 23 km in 46 minutes, I went up hill quicker than I went down hill yesterday, with a full head wind fixed firmly behind me I was flying ✈ but I knew it couldn’t last as at Duntroon I had to do a “Right turn Clyde”.
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That put me head on to the wind and back to reality of 5 Kph and walking up Hills again, the day that just got longer than expected.
If the shortest route is a straight line then the run in to Oamaru is the futherest thing from that and the map I have I had to give up on as it was not possible to follow the route due to the maps scale and the fact that the trial is not marked as it has be made through farm land.

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The route was made harder as in places as this is a new route which is still being developed and the surfaces in parts are still settling in so are very soft in places so sometimes it’s like riding through sand so quite tough going.

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However they have managed to send you through some pretty special country on your way to the Ocean so hats of to the team which have developed this ride.
half way through the day you have to go through a tunnel it’s not so long but it’s not straight and you do need light’s to get through as it is totally black inside.
Ha! Got this one covered it is part of the reason I haul the extra weight of a hub dynamo so I have a super bright head light πŸ’‘ So I stopped just short of the tunnel turn on the light and ride in with supreme confidence that I have no problem.

Wrong, almost instantly the world went black and I was plunged in to darkness, must be a problem with my lights so I stopped to check it out, and out went my lights now I am in total darkness as the stand light on my light had not had time to be charged as I had only switched it on a few moments earlier, it was quite funny scary to watch the last remaining light in my world go out and be totally consumed by the dark. Luckily I knew my head torchπŸ”¦was in my bar bag so I had to fumble through the accumulated crap in my bag to find it. Happy πŸ™‚ to have light again I peddled on realising that my eyes had started to adjust and there was light at the end of the tunnel, guess my lights were working fine just my eyes could notΒ  keep up with the transition from light to dark so quick.

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Really strange day windy as hell but super sunny but stormy too. I thought I had seen all the weather had to offer today but I was wrong it delivered a final offering of hail just for good measure, but I didn’t care as I was 20 km from Oamaru and closing at a snails pace 🐌 due to the wind. The final ride in takes you on an old railway line and on to the towns parks and gardens, then through the old and some what quirky town of Oak before presenting you the finish line of the Pacific Ocean and the end of the ride and of the roads, next land from here would be Antarctica and Scott base. Great ride 300 km in 5 days Alps to Ocean completed. πŸ™‚

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Dams Busted

Onward and upward over the hills and far away, but very very slowly head wind all day blowing through the valley and no getting away from it all day. Up hill battered by the wind bad enough but come on no fair on the way down I am sure that I went up some hills faster than I came down πŸ™‚ I lie anyone who knows me knows I am Mr slow going up hills.
The guide book says that you might walk up to the top of the dam count me on that one, not long just very steep but from an engineering point of view they are quite something, and it is one of the main reasons that New Zealand is able to provide mostly clean power, with just wind and one coal burning plant on the north Island so pretty good over all.
Down side is that these beautiful lakes came at a price, some of the best rivers in NZ swollowed up at the cost of power.
Sadest thing I saw all day though was all the dead Wallabies along the road I think they must be coming down to the lakes to drink and get creamed by the cars for there trouble, could not always see them but you could smell them rotting yuck.
So dry, hot and sunny all day today and a lot of time on the roads glad I am down here mid-week as I think from what I know and can see there is a lot more poeple at the weekends, and more people more cars.
So I finally crawled into Kurow feeling completely drained but feeling happy. The campsite is nice and currently for sale, its clean and well kept but could do with a little updating in parts but its nice.
All is good in my world and I am a happy Teddy.

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